Recovering +letting go of tradition+healing+personal growth,+self discovery.

Question- Why when dudes wit money try to get at you and you have a boyfriend....the first thing they say is: "Bet ya Man aint got Money like me, or stacking bread like me, etc." But the same dude gets mad when they find out a chick they messing wit is a Gold digger...Clearly idiot thats what you looking for...SMH!!!!! I mean is that all you have to offer; Money????